These are a few of the images that the media portrays on both women and men. As we all know the media has created the image of a women to be slim and attractive while men are handsome and toned. For many years these specific factors have become a guide to how to be the "perfect" women or men. We have no choicer than to look at the media for a guidance because they have become a part of our lives. No women or men wants to be the exception or seen lower because of his or her appearance. This is exactly why we turn to the media, to give us security and comfort that if we change our appearances to look like these models then we will also look as happy and joyful as they do. But in reality who is perfect? The answer is no one, no human being is perfect in fact nothing in this world is perfect. You can not prove something is perfect, so why do we continue to look for that perfection when it does not exist. We are all different that is what makes each and every one of us unique. we have the beauty to make our own decisions and to be who we want to be. We have the control to dress and look the way we wish to. If we have the power to be some one who is comfortable and happy in their body then why do we choose to become some one different, why do we hide from ourselves are we ashamed or embarrassed?

Hello everyone, before I started with my first blog post I wanted to introduce myself and of course one of the topics I find most interesting. I am a college student with an interest in a verity of things and one of those things is  writing. I love to write on my free time, I write anything that comes to my mind many and times I just find myself writing phrases that I don't even understand. Writing is one of those things that helps you escape from the rest of the world or at least that's how i see it. Anyways enough about me and on to what I am writing a blog, well i'm sure all of you have loved whether it was love from family, friends, relationship, pet, or anything else we have all loved once. I believe that love has many meanings and everyone can define love in their own way. We all have different opoinions and views but even though we all have these differences we all share one thing in common and that is love. Whether or not you might say love is beautiful or love is worthless we come together to agree that love is a daily struggle in our lives. Yes love has many definitions because it lives in everyone, but we need to understand those things that come along with loving. And the most important is learning to love yourself and everything that you are.